It is generally believed that the concept of death in Western societies is with a strong jenseitigkeit under religious background.Therefore,real world is made light of and people yearn for the transcendental world after death.But there is a clear secularity in Chinese traditional culture,and thus people concentrate on life maintenance and real-life operations.But this is just a general statement.Taking Chinese and foreign lyrics for example,the concept of death in Western societies is not only the religious sentiment, but there is also philosophical thinking;there is not only Confucian generosity in Chinese traditional society, but also the Taoist carefreeness. What are in both is the family＇s mourning and memory of human relations.