Erich Fromm pointed in his work The Art of Loving that attention，sense of duty, respect, and understanding is the constant elements of all kinds of love. In this paper, we call it“four elements of love”, which would be well efficient in student’s management, especially in regard to the Yi language and Chinese Type-1 minority preparatory students. Understanding these students would lead them to understand and accept themselves. Respecting these students would lead them to know their duties and futures. Caring these students would also lead them to love themselves, and then to love the others and the life. Having the responsibility to these students would lead them to know their own values and missions. Taking“the four elements of love”into consideration in student’s management is not only in line with the law of education but also in line with the law of development and survival of human beings.