Abstract:Self-control is one aspect of the children's self-awareness, and is also an important part of children's social development. The acquisition of children's self-control ability will positively promote the development of children's sociality, and the development of children' s self-control ability also needs the support of various sociality- qualities. To understand the form of children' s self-control ability in the social development view and to drive the optimization of the local capacity from children's whole development, it is in the need to help young children internalize rule-consciousness in the game and guide children to control their moods in experiences and stimulate children's perseverance in the activities, as well as form children's behavior-habits in practice.